LEARN TO SAY HOW YOU FEEL

We are human beings. We think we are too smart. And that’s the problem right now which I am gonna talk about. We think we are smart but reality is that we aren’t and the problem is we think too much.

When we were little babies we used to ask for everything using hand gestures and our gibberish undeveloped language even though it didn’t made any sense to us but the whole point here is that back then we know that if we want anything then we need to ask for it. We knew that our parents not gonna read our mind and find out by themselves. We have to tell them that ourselves and this way of communicating always worked. I can say we had a lot more sense when we were little than what we have now.

As we grow up our thinking changes. We tend to become so called smart but on the way we become the entire opposite. We become dumb when it comes to relationships and I will tell you why

few days back my friend called me and told me that he will come to my place to visit me on Sunday and i was so happy and so eager to meet him. but sunday passed and e didnt came.i called him the next day to ask why he didnt make it and i couldnt believe what he told me

"oh man sorry but i had a urgent work to do and i meant to call you but i thought you could understand that some work must have come my way"

and i was thinking like how could i understand? i am not a psychic. its ok you got work to do but atleast call me and tell me you are not coming instead of just assuming that i will know it somehow..i was so angry that we all are doing the same. just assuming and assuming .not thinking about what other person might be thinking.

there are only two answers in this world YES or NO.

there is no " maybe" or " i will see" or "let me think"..its either yes or no..that's it!!. either you want something or you don't. don't make excuses because that can only hurt someone..

We now have this absurd idea that other person should be able to understand how we feel and that’s a stupid idea. We always say that I love my mother , I love my father and actually never in person tell this thing to their face  because we think that they already know and had the idea that their son or daughter love them..

 

A girl or a boy who has crush on someone can infatuate over the other person for over long time but don’t have the courage to tell how they feel because we want the other person to somehow find out by themselves

A boy calls her friend and she tells her that her mood is off but don’t know why. Boy tries very hard to calm her but she keeps telling her that she is not in mood of talking but in reality she wants him to help her but also wants him to find out whats in her mind by himself

And the worst example. A boyfriend and girlfiend broke up without giving a proper reason or giving it a reason at all thinking that the other person can understand.. guess what it doesn’t work that way. No one can understand what you are telling unless you don’t tell yourself

Why we do things based on assumptions. Breaking promises without giving a reason ,just assuming that everyone can understand what you did and why you did. Our cheezy dialogues ruining our relations every day. Its our fault

I think we are doing a bad thing here. These movies these assumptions they are to be blame for all the lies, the heartache, the pain. People should be able to tell themselves how they feel. It’s a responsibility. Be like that infant who is able to tell what he wanna say . don’t be smart , be responsible, be dumb but atleast don’t go on living your life based on assumptions and the let go attitude

Don’t learn to just talk…..learn to say!!!